Saying that the Korean culture is "community-oriented" is a bit of an understatement, but it is always good to look at specific ways in which that general trait is manifested. And this is one of them.
When a Korean is happy, he or she will generally be very expressive in order to share the joy and excitement. In the same way, when that person is sad, everyone will gather around to share the pain. When you visit your friends' houses, they will most likely insist on paying for everything except the subway ride there. And when you go out to the restaurant, you will likely share a large pitcher of cold water and a large pot of hot food. If you leave your food in the common area, it means you are sharing it. and if you leave your soap in the shower, it means that everyone is welcome to it.
From the minute I got off the plane and Jinju was waiting for me with a Subway Card and hotel reservations, to my friend "Bass" who gave me his earring, to the giant container of Cheese Balls that our entire suite -and plenty of other people - have been sharing, I have been completely overwhelmed by the sense of openness. I love it! I have no problems sharing my food or my time because when I need anything, my Korean friends are the first ones to drown me in thoughtful gifts.
I believe my roommate and I are in a sweet competition to see who can be the most generous. Although I am not in the least competitive, I like this one! Because everyone wins.
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